I quite like Facebook. I used to use it for shorter versions of these blog entries. I post less nowadays as a result of musingsponderingsandrants but I still get pleasure from hearing other’s news.
It is also my main platform for sharing this Blog and so I could not really do without it. Well I could but then no one would read anything I wrote except for my handful of loyal followers (thanks to you lovely lot), and those stumbling upon me accidentally.
I have a lot of family and friends who I see too infrequently and I feel closer to them than I would if FB didn’t exist.
I have found handymen and wasp nest killers and cooker repairers from heart felt pleas on its walls.
Others I know successfully sell second hand items through it.
And actually the most lovely thing about it is the snap shot it gives one of one’s life. Nearly daily, because I was such an avid poster, I get a notification that I have ‘Memories to look back on’. In fact I am such a prolific poster that when I tried recently to order one of those ‘My Social Books’ for my time on the site I could not get it under the 500 page limit.
I always look back on those memories. I don’t usually share them because who else is interested. But I gain immense pleasure from them.
Today I was reminded that last year Middlest and Eldest were both away overnight (I have no idea where!) and husband and I took Youngest for her first Chinese restaurant meal. And had a ball.
Two years ago my friendly dashboard spider gave me a fright.
There were pictures of Eldest in Year 4 dressed as a Celtic warrior. It backed up my recent musings that he was by far the most grown up of all my children at that stage in school. Youngest has now just started Year 4 and has no where near the same knowing look in her eye.
Four years ago I had finished knitting Jesus.
And five years ago I was bemoaning how hard it was to cook a curry whilst doing reading with Eldest, avoiding Middlest’s toy cars whizzing by, dressing a dollie for Youngest and avoiding a balloon pig occasionally floating over the hob.
I can remember that moment very clearly- although I have no idea why we had a balloon pig- beacuse I had been reminded of it. I would probably never have thought about it again with out that timely reminder from good old FB.
And so I am glad I was a prolific poster. I am glad I wrestled my inner demons, who worried I was boring everyone to death, and just wrote anyway. I am glad I wrote about the every day, the mundane, the humorous, the annoying and the heartfelt.
For now I have this record of my day to day life since 2009. A most welcome, almost daily, little package of memories which make me go ‘Oh yes I remember that’. It is an on line version of a diary but with pictures.
And it makes me think that I still need to post some little snippets, despite the longer record of current life contained in these blogs. For else I will lose that lovely package of history.
FB has its detractors but for me it has definitely got this right. Thanks.
I love Facebook! The memories are nice to look back on and I think that is what keeps me on Facebook. It’s becoming more of a journal of our life now just like the blog 🙂
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I’ve never any of those memory reminders. Not interested. Those I see of other people’s, hugely interesting and important though they be to the individual, are invariably dull to the rest of us.
I have occasionally trawled through Paula’s galleries (fnar fnar) to see what year we went on what holiday, but that’s about it.
I agree with the staying in touch stuff. With the invariable moving around we all do, sometimes it ends up being the only conduit.
That is why I don’t post mine to my wall….they are my memories not anyone else’s….
I get the notifications but can’t figure out how to look back on the memory, can someone pls help me
I just go into notifications (click on the globe symbol) and the fact that you memories should come up. Then you can just click on that notice and they all should come up individually. Hope that helps.